You Can And Will Survive The End Of The Relationship

You can survive the end of the relationship and move on unless you let the end of the relationship make you feel empty.

The belief that there is “that perfect other half” is one of those false thoughts that leads to suffering. Only by believing in such perceptions will the difference be something that is around the corner ready to take away your happiness, the core of your being, and your entire existence.

So this time, we invite you to think a little more deeply about a topic called divorce – keep reading and think about what your own assumptions about ending a relationship are. Is it really the case that these situations can be overcome without much suffering?

You will survive the end of the relationship

The importance of differences in human life

Differences become insignificant when a loved one dies, has a serious illness, or any other situation that matters more than the difference.

However, we should not need some more serious problem to understand that we are giving  far too much importance to ending a relationship.

We feel that suddenly everything sinks, nowhere makes sense, and we think we will die because of the difference. We are a long way from accepting the situation, and in some cases we are  wandering more and more in the pain that makes us captive.

Perhaps in a situation like this, we have given our all to another person, when instead we should have first raised our own self-esteem. Maybe we were already empty inside when we started the relationship, but we just didn’t realize it then.

This is always a big mistake. You then prioritize your partner, admire him, and make him your savior. Then when everything changes, you stop being.

Your existence will continue even after the separation

Your partner says he no longer feels the same way about you, and you find that  you stop being you. Then you start to disappear and wither away.

Even if your partner says so, and even if everything changes,  you will continue your own existence.

The biggest problem with your world collapsing in this situation is that you have been caught in another person. You have then become this other person, and  you have put many of your own responsibilities in his hands.

Remember that even if you resign, the world will not end there. It may seem like it, but in reality you don’t have a decent perspective on it.

If you don’t want to sink when your relationship ends for one reason or another, it’s very important that you build a strong relationship with yourself.

So why does a person see so much effort to maintain good relationships with other people but not themselves?

We underestimate ourselves.  Unfortunately, we don’t give ourselves the value we deserve, and this is the cause of most of our problems.

Loving in a free way

No one teaches us to love freely. The movies, religion, and constant advertising to which we are always exposed encourage us to bind ourselves to another person, but  what about yourself?

We believe we are nothing if we do not do what we have been told to be right. These misconceptions about the relationship include the following:

• “You have to have a partner.”
• “Love means suffering.”
• “You have to try to hold on to your relationship”.
• “Love requires sacrifices”.

All of these beliefs have become very deeply planted in our minds and  guide our way of experiencing both relationships and differences.

However, we have never been taught how to let go – how to make the decision to let another person go  when nothing works anymore.

Therefore, we hold on to our relationship, lower our self-esteem, and humble ourselves… And do countless things that work against us.

Differences do not kill people. The differences are, in fact, often an exemption from a heavy burden.

So let’s stop believing in old stories that we still believe are true today. Let’s start letting go of everything that doesn’t do any good without feeling guilty.